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The practice of neighborliness

Nothing original below. To the contrary, I’m trying to remember that less alienated era I grew up in. Some of these I’m doing and some I’m working on. Please suggest additions.

  1. Don’t talk about politics or religion. Never bring it up yourself and if the other person brings it up, redirect the conversation.
  2. The only exception to the above is local news. This encourages engagement with the concerns of the community, which actually affects your life.
  3. Don’t gossip, even if it is local.
  4. Get to know your neighborhood by walking it. This gives it texture and shape in your mind.
  5. Embrace small talk; it signals openness between people who may not have much in common.
  6. Take note of the elders around you and watch out for them.
  7. Avoid cash exchange. Practice the gift economy.
  8. Be outside more. That’s where most neighborly interactions happen.
  9. Try to remember names. Failing that, “neighbor” signals a warm heart despite a blank mind.
  10. Consider the health of your neighborhood as a whole.
  11. Wave.
  12. Welcome new neighbors with baked goods.
  13. Feed the birds and stray cats.

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