Nothing original below. To the contrary, I’m trying to remember that less alienated era I grew up in. Some of these I’m doing and some I’m working on. Please suggest additions.
- Don’t talk about politics or religion. Never bring it up yourself and if the other person brings it up, redirect the conversation.
- The only exception to the above is local news. This encourages engagement with the concerns of the community, which actually affects your life.
- Don’t gossip, even if it is local.
- Get to know your neighborhood by walking it. This gives it texture and shape in your mind.
- Embrace small talk; it signals openness between people who may not have much in common.
- Take note of the elders around you and watch out for them.
- Avoid cash exchange. Practice the gift economy.
- Be outside more. That’s where most neighborly interactions happen.
- Try to remember names. Failing that, “neighbor” signals a warm heart despite a blank mind.
- Consider the health of your neighborhood as a whole.
- Wave.
- Welcome new neighbors with baked goods.
- Feed the birds and stray cats.