Life within limits

Oliver Burkeman: A life fully lived just is painfully bittersweet, the joy inextricably intertwined with loss. The major chapters of life, such as your children’s childhoods, just will feel like they’re over too fast, pretty much whatever you do. I am forty-five years old and I’m still trying to accept this, even after years spent reading in wisdom traditions that teach this very thing. It is as if there is a small part of me that knows it is true while everything else within me fights it.

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The next step we’ll be taking to increase relatedness here at our house: vermicomposting. We have a thousand worms on the way. 😂


Spotted at a local greenhouse: tiny iridescent frog nestled inside a tiger lily.


Catching up: Vacation in California

Happy belated solstice, everyone. We’re at the turn of the year – days start getting shorter and the heat really cranks up here in Indiana. I had good intentions of posting daily about vacation but obviously that didn’t work out. Flying to California As previously noted, we had some problems getting to San Francisco – but nothing like what was to come. (Cue ominous music.) San Francisco We already weren’t planning a lot of time for San Francisco but, with the additional delay, we basically just had one day.

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Inspiring, short documentary about Jadav Payeng, who has been planting a forest since 1979 to save the river island of Majuli from destruction by erosion.


Bumblebee on purple coneflower 🌱


Visiting Tor House and Hawk Tower, home of Robinson Jeffers and his wife Una, was an amazing experience yesterday. I still can’t believe I was there, got to sit at his writing desk and climb to the top of Hawk Tower (second picture is the view of the Pacific from the top).


Nevertheless, I’ll be looking for you tomorrow, Jeffers.


Day three. What can you say about these god-trees, the redwoods?


Highlight of day two of our California vacation was the sea lions hanging out, watching the humans at Pier 39.